Has your sexual regime reached a dead end?
Feeling bored? Follow our seven step sexual
guide and feel your lost libido recharged …
1. Change your sexual routine
Analyse your sexual regimen. Is it highly
predictable? Is it more of a race to reach an
orgasm? If so then perhaps you are in the midst
of a sexual rut. So, get up and try breaking the
sexual norm by doing the opposite of what you
normally do. If you’re having sex in darkness,
try it in the morning or in the afternoon. If
you’re always getting down and dirty in the
bedroom, enjoy a quickie on the kitchen counter
or under the shower. If your man is always on
top, surprise him by taking charge. Change your
sexual POA to inject freshness into your sex life.
2. Show him the booty
It’s not always a great idea to sashay around the
house in sexy lingerie and killer heels if you
want an instant arousal in your man. Why don’t
you surprise him by doing the dusting totally
naked wearing a sexy G-string or indulge in
some sexy shopping together. Men are turned on
by what they see – so show him.
3. Make enough time
While sex is supposed to be spontaneous,
unbridled passion, the pressure of jobs,
children, and managing domestic chores leaves
us with no time for sex. Try to give him hints
that you are looking forward to a romp. Send
suggestive and naughty texts and emails
throughout the day. Spontaneity is a great mood
builder and the anticipation and build up of
something planned can be lots of fun.
4. Look back…
Remember the early days when you were in the
first throes of lust when it was hard to keep
your hands of each other? Most couples
remember their initial years with affectionate
nostalgia, so try and recreate those memories.
Plan a nice dinner, reminisce about the first
time you saw each other, what attracted you
initially, and your first date. Recall the sexual
connection, the pet names, personal jokes. Put
on some sensuous music and dance around your
living room to the song you first danced to.
Recreate the thrill of having sex by doing it
somewhere you might get caught! You share a
rich history, so indulge in it a little – those that
do are the couples that stay connected.
5. It’s good to talk
Never sleep with anger within you. The
unwritten rule of a great relationship is to really
talk. Be open and honest. Talk about things you
don’t like in each other, irritating habbits. But
remember to discuss the positive traits too –
communicate what’s important in your
relationship; simply talking about why you love
each other can help keep the passion alive.
6. Retain the mystery
A little bit of mystery adds spark to your love
life. Sometimes when you are living with each
other for years, you get too comfortable with
each other and tend to be yourself with your
partner. So keep the mystery alive and add some
spice to your relationship.
7. Indulge your senses
Turn your bedroom into an erotic boudoir by
adding loads of silk, satin sheets and colours
that make you feel sexy. Cook aphrodisiacal
meals together with naughty ingredients that
really s-excite the taste buds, or share a
candlelit bath with fragrant bubbles and scented
oils. Make the time to indulge your senses and
you’ll soon your libido replenished.
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