5 Things Men can do to tú-rn Women

Let her know the things you like about her,
what túrns you on about her– is in fact a
huge túrn on for her.
If you frequent the bar scene or have tried online
dating recently, you’ve probably been barraged by
men who think that lewd séxual remarks or lame
pick up lines are what it takes to get them a date—
or into your pants.
And then, there’s the general insensitivity. Men
can be thoughtless when it comes to dating and
relationships. It’s not that they intend to be rude…
they just don’t think things through. But that
doesn’t mean women should necessarily push men
away. Women play a part too. Sometimes, women
can tend to focus on the negative, making matters
worse.
Continue After The Break
Dr. Jane Greer, GalTime’s own Relationship Expert,
and creator of “Shrink Wrap” (a national
commentary on what we can learn from celebrity
relationships), has heard it all… “He talked too
much, he interrupted, he came late, he told you
that you were going out to dinner and then he
changed his mind… this list could go on infinitely
because the knee-jerk response is to talk about
what túrned you off.”
Dr. Greer points out that we can all benefit from a
change in attitude. “I think the key for men and
women both is to shift from the ‘túrn off’ to the
‘túrn on.’ Then your day after conversation can be
testimony to the positives. You can say, ‘Here’s
what I liked…’ and that can give you something to
build on.”
There are plenty of things men can do to túrn
women on. She offers these tips:
1. Be reliable and follow through. If you say you
are going to call, call. Otherwise, don’t say it. If
you make a date for 7:00 get there at 7:00, or be
thoughtful and communicate in some form that
you’re running late. This is how you convey
respect.
2. Show interest by asking questions. Take the
time to inquire about the important aspects of her
life—like friends, work, family and hobbies. This is
the way you get to find out the things you have in
common– and at the same time show her she’s
important to get to know about.
3. Compliment her. Let her know the things you
like about her, what túrns you on about her– is in
fact a huge túrn on for her. If you like her hair,
outfit or something she says… tell her!
4. Be considerate. Ask her about the things she
likes to do, and factoring in her preferences and
needs into the plans you make for your date. If
you’re at a restaurant ask her what food she likes
before you order to see if you can share anything.
5. Flírt with her! Be playful, charming, and séxy,
smile a lot and laugh with her. All of these things
will spark a connection that will be a great túrn
on.